West Coast or East Coast? That question is coming up again.

Don’t ask why. Ask when. Ask how far north? The only south I go is south of the U.S. I’d prefer Japan, but I’ll take L.A. or San Diego, or Boston, or North Hampton, even NYC.

Anywhere north of Philly. I am so done with southern charm snakes.

Eighteen years is a long time for a single woman to sit in one spot and not blink.