Take a look at my profile updates on ALL my social media sites–check out my profile and my bio for links.
grasping my hand
whispering in my ear
invoking into me,
Loving fiercely counters sneering cynicism.
Folks, when you run into situations where you are literally talked over and not given enough space to finish a sentence, end the conversation immediately and keep it moving because a) they are not really interested in hearing what you have to say b) don’t really consider you as being reliable as a professional — or as an adult and c) already assume you to be problematic. Part of my healing is recognizing when some (even those you love and trust at times) view you as somehow flawed or a disappointment or just not “with it.” My mental health depends on me recognizing those moments that trigger anxiety or depression–or both. This is one of them. Learn to step away and decline to absorb other people’s issues.
Sooooo…..after looking at my WordPress blog (here), Twitter, FB page, FB profile, Tumblr, Pinterest, LinkedIn, and Instagram, I’ve concluded that A) the creep who was stalking me like a little bitch paused or stopped after I warned him that I’m not one to fuck with and I do believe in filing police reports (yes, if you post creepy, threatening shit to someone you’ve never met you are a creep–esp if you are dumb enough to do it for someone else who’s also a creep–which does apply in this case) and B) I have some true blue fans, including a trans-femme submissive who apparently admires cis women who are older and buxom — he clearly interprets me as a domme (though I am older, buxom, and submissive in my own right). I’m cool with being admired by people of all genders and sexualities. It’s nice, actually. But I prefer folk a bit closer to my age, i.e., gen-x or younger baby-boomers, which means 40s-60s. And closer, which means the DMV area.
Mind you, I am one of billions on this planet using social media on this planet. Start with your follow list, and move to your stats.
Be careful out there, fam. Even academics can attract some stalkers online.
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